Happy Wife Happy Life Right? Not necessarily. It all depends on what makes your wife happy.
What made Mark's wife happy was for him not to smile at female customers who visited his furniture store as she was supremely insecure - a holdover from her ex-husband cheating and leaving her.
There was only one problem. Most guys won't buy furniture their wives don't like & most women won't buy from a person who won't smile and pay attention to them while shopping.
Ultimately, Mark's business suffered because of him trying to make his wife happy. As his business suffered, his self-esteem suffered. As his business closed and his self-confidence plummeted, his wife became financially insecure and no longer respected him. End result, she divorced him.
Moral of the story: There are times when making someone happy will make both your lives miserable in the long run. This video explains how you determine when to make her happy and when you should stand your ground.
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